#2020 zo

esta foto é da milly cope

1. speaking your mind and living a genuine life doesn't mean saying everything you feel and think to everyone all the time. know when to keep silent. 
2. likewise, don't always act on your feelings. you are not your feelings or your thoughts or the tears or the laughs you're letting out right now
3. taking things personally is not worth it. nothing others do is about us most of the time anyways
4. read. read a lot. read in the metro, read in padaria alone, read in bed, read always.
5. life is sad and weird but that's ok
6. you can and will hold yourself when no one else can
7. stay away from social media. i mean it. - blogs are ok -
8. it's ok to not love the things you don't love anymore
9. go learn french
10. you are not responsible for everyone you love or care about nor can you keep them safe all the time or save them from sadness. YOU ARE NOT RESPONSIBLE!!
11. take care of yourself first
12. once something is over, let it be over
13. what is good for you is what you feel deep down is good for you, stop looking at what's good for everyone else
14. you can have your cake and eat it too. there's no need to suffer or compromise. you can have it all (steve chbosky's words)
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